Drama of the Delayed Flight

October 13, 2009 by jottingpad

After a 4-hour delay, I was finally strapped in my seat with 135 other passengers of the flight from Medan to Jakarta. It was already past 11 PM when the pilot revved the jet engines and brought the airplane up into the night sky.

It was the worst – and the most dramatic – delay I’ve ever experienced. My wife had warned me of the disadvantage of taking the last flight out. “It will be delayed,” she said. But being the positive, happy go lucky person, I somehow believed that the airline had learned its lesson and would do its best to avoid delays. Boy, I don’t think I’ve ever been more wrong in my life before.

I received the text from my staff at the office informing about the ‘change of flight schedule’, from 7 PM to 9.40 PM. I was incensed. “They cannot do this! They must take responsibility! I have the right of having the airline arranged a better flight for me!” thus my ranting went on inside my head. Yes, the regulations require an airline to transfer a passenger to a better flight upon request, should a more than 90 minute delay is inevitable. But since it was a ‘change of schedule’, technically it was not a delay, and the airline managed to weasel itself out of its accountability through that loophole. Only a 25% refund was provided, and I had to pay full fare if I wanted to change to another airline.

I had no choice but to grumblingly accept to stay with the flight.

I arrived at the airport a few minutes before 6 PM. Although the check in counter for the ‘changed schedule flight’ would not be open until 7 PM, the staff kindly led me to an open counter of a different flight to check in. Satisfied with the boarding pass in my hand, I headed to the executive lounge.

About 2,5 hours later, I was bored beyond measure. I hoped that I could browse on my HSDPA modem, enjoyed a free buffet, and relaxed, all the privileged of the executive lounge. I somehow had too much fried rice-fettuccine and pastries that within half an hour I was full. My HSDPA connection was rottenly slow. The PA system endlessly calling passengers to board, it was difficult to have a decent and relaxing rest.

At 9 PM, I left the executive lounge to join the other passengers in the waiting hall. I entertained myself on my smart phone, commenting on my friends’ posts on Facebook. At 9.20PM, the appointed time of boarding, there was no call. At 9.40 PM, the departure time, still no call. I walked up to the gate to approach a group of the airline staff who were busy teasing one another, and asked something in the line of, “When do we depart from this wretched place?”

The young woman turned to her friend, mumbled something, and turned to me with an uneasy demeanor. “I don’ t know how to tell you this, Sir, but we won’t be boarding until 10.45 PM, at the earliest.”

That would translate to 90 more minute of delay. There was an unmistakable sinking feeling inside me, very close to despair.

“I hope you can understand,” she quickly added.

What else could I do but to muster a herculean effort of an understanding?

As I sat down, another passenger, a big, dark, bald and unshaved man took my place at the counter. Unlike me, he was not in an understanding mood. He voiced his displeasure. He raised his tone. He ranted mercilessly to the helpless desk staff. A crowd began to gather around the scene. The man still went on and on, slashing at the staff’s lame attempts at making reasonable excuses. He kept going at it for about 15 minutes before he went back to his seat with an unsatisfied air.

I quickly changed my Facebook status.

On the background I could catch the man’s loud voice. I thought he was continuing his angry outburst. I looked over my shoulder and I saw him talking into his mobile phone. Then he turned to other travelers, telling them that they should trash the airline’s office to attract the attention of TV news crew, so everybody would know what the airline had done to its passengers.

What an angry, big, dark, bald man.

10.15 PM. A Boeing 737-300 taxied into the apron. It was our aircraft. I quickly gulped down the snack I got from the airline, picked up my heavy backpack, and sat at the front row, near the gate. After a few minutes, I left my seat and stood in front of the gate, determined to be the first to board the plane. Other passengers quickly formed a line behind me.

About 15 minutes later, the gate was opened, and I picked up my steps toward the plane. As I entered the door, I saw a young flight attendant standing, squeezing her eyelids several times to stay awake. I promptly gave her the nicest smile that I had left.  She smiled back at me and greeted me warmly.

Being done at stowing my backpack securely in the overhead bin, I took my seat and looked around at the rest of the cabin crew. I saw pretty young faces, wearing uniforms designed to flaunt their beautiful forms. They swiftly went about their tasks of assisting passengers into their consigned seats and put away their cabin baggage. They did their best to maintain a professional posture despite of exhaustion.

I could not help thinking, “How can anybody be angry at them? They are doing the best they can at their job. And to be perfectly fair, what happened is beyond their immediate influence.”

One hour into the flight, and after a box of snack and a cup of mineral water, everybody was content. Even the big, dark, bald man seemed to have forgotten about his anger, and talked to the stewardesses about (presumably) the airline merchandise they are selling.

How can anyone stay angry when seeing this excellent crew?

I honestly disliked the airline for failing to keep its promised schedule. But I must admit that they did have a highly professional crew.

And here we come to the moral of this story.

Sometimes, things (or s**t, as some people say) just happen. There is nothing you can do about it. There is no point of worrying about it. You cannot keep it from happening, and you cannot stop it from completing itself. When s**t happens, focus on the task at hand. Nobody can stay angry at you when you do that.

And being gorgeous while you are at it won’t hurt, either.

Who Am I?

March 12, 2009 by jottingpad

The past four years have been the years of soul searching for me to find the answer to one, single question. That is, “Who am I, exactly?”

I used to harbor envy at people with deep passions in their lives. There are those who are so passionate about cooking, or filmmaking, or fashion, or photography, or wedding planning, or tennis, or golf, or dancing, or music making. And they found that passion at such an early age, they already made a name for themselves in their thirties, or even twenties.

I once read a short bio on Jamie Oliver, the British celebrity chef. Age-wise, he is only 12 days older than I am. Yet he had achieved so much in his 20’s, while in the same period of time the only achievement I made was living to the adage of ‘work hard, play hard’.

Here’s the rough comparison

Age 23
Jamie: hosted his first television show
Me: hmmm … what did I do back then?

Age 28
Jamie: Appointed MBE (Member of the Order of the British Empire) by Elizabeth II, Queen of England.
Me: still no clue

As with many people, the realization of the fleeting time dawned on me as I was getting nearer to my 30th birthday. I began to look around, and I could not help feeling dissatisfied with my life. I could not help having the nagging thought of, “Had I known what I am passionate about in my teens, I would have been in a better position, as of now.”

Somehow I had the difficulties of making up my mind on what I want to pursue on a professional level. Something that I enjoy doing, and at the same time it puts bread on the table.

I do know that my job now is not so bad. I learn a lot from it, and I do get satisfaction every now and then. One time, as I filled out my LinkedIn profile, I realized I have done many things, and I have made a difference for my company and for many people.

But have I made a difference in my life? Or am I just working to make a living?

The acid test is this: Would I do what I do now if I don’t get paid for it?

No.

Then what is the one thing that I don’t mind not getting paid for doing?

If I can answer that, then I will find the definition of me.

I pondered about this question for several years. I knew I had several interests in life, and I am pretty good at them, but which one of them really defines me? The one thing that people will put after my name when they describe me in a biographical entry.

Here’s some examples from wikipedia:

Christian Bale (born Jan 30, 1974) is an English actor.
Leonardo DiCaprio (born Nov 11, 1974) is an American actor and film producer.
David Beckham (born May 2, 1975) is an English footballer.
Jamie Oliver, MBE (born May 27, 1975) is an English chef and media personality.
Stephen Siregar (born Jun 9, 1975) is … ???

During the 4 years of soul-searching, I took inventory of all the things that were of interest to me. Of all that I could come up with, I came to the conclusion that I was a writer. Yeah, a writer! I wrote occasionally, and sometimes I got good reviews from the readers. And the most important thing was that it was something I enjoyed doing although I didn’t get paid for it. I could make a career in writing. Blogs, books, articles, whatever. I just need to write, write and write to get myself even better and better at it.

But then, I realized one important aspect in writing that might critically impair its economic potential. Writing took ideas, and ideas need inspiration. And in my case, inspiration is most of the time as rare as a four-leaf clover (well, alright, a four-leaflet clover, for crying out loud). I was not so diligent in writing as I had hoped to be.

So, if writing is not it, then what is?

I do enjoy picture taking, but I’m not much of a camera buff. I’m not the kind of photography enthusiast who spend a lot of money on cameras and their accessories. And instead of going hunting for the most beautiful sights on earth, I would rather hang out in cafes. I don’t mind not getting paid for my photos, but I also don’t like making money from taking pictures, either. So that can’t be it.

Everything suddenly became clear in the past 4 months. I had projects at the office that require the use of my designing skills. I worked on several designs, offering them to the users, and picked one that I believe would work best. I planned the project from scratch, hired furniture designer and technicians, and I delightly watched as my ideas took form into being.

And there it is now: the new lay-out of my office.

I got satisfaction from seeing the ideas that I combined in a design became a reality. I would do it for free, but since it’s part of my job description, then I was actually got paid for it!

I wished it had been a larger project with more funds and more risk to it. I wish it had been an entire building job. I wish it had been an extreme makeover project.

Then the enlightment suddenly hit me. This is it! This is the one thing that defines me! This is actually what I have been wanting to do ever since I was in elementary school. This is me! This should be how I look at and how I approach my job. No matter where I am, no matter what I do.

Stephen Siregar (born Jun 9, 1975) is an Indonesian designer.

25 Things Most People Don’t Know About Me

March 11, 2009 by jottingpad

(Previously a Facebook Application Content)

1. My wife accuses me of being over-narcissistic at times. Usually when I spend too much time in front of the mirror. Too much time. Like, you know, 5 seconds.

2. At other times, I don’t like being the center of attention. You know, like when 800 something people had their eyes fixed at me. That’s why I’m not into performing arts, nor politics, nor reality shows.

3. I can be a true morning person. I like cramming as much things to do in a day from sunrise to sundown.

4. At other days, I like taking the time to wake up very slowly in the morning. I mean slowly. Really slow. Like one eyelid at a time.

5. As a Gemini who was born under the shadow of planet Mercury, I can be very fluent at talking my way out of sticky situation. My senior in college once called me ‘a pig’ to my face, when he became a victim to that ‘special’ ability. I wonder how he knew that pigs could talk like I did.

6. Yet there are many times when I would rather shut up and keep everything to myself.

7. In the morning, I hate to think of what to wear today. If possible, I would rather wear the same suit again and again until they’re all ragged from overuse.

8. But sometimes I love to dress up so meticulously that I end up depressing myself from thinking of all the things I must do (and shop for) to be perfectly groomed.

9. I’m born melancholy phlegmatic. One time my perfectionist side possessed me completely, I took about half an hour to rearrange the messy pile of discounted audio cassettes in a Carrefour store into neat rows, with all the spines uniformly facing up. If I had had another half hour, I would have arranged them alphabetically by artist’s name.

10. But when I was too lazy to bother, I used to let my books strewn all over the floor in my room for weeks on end. Well, now that I’m married, that doesn’t happen anymore. Or I will get an earful from my wife.

11. I sometimes read two or three books different books at the same time. Today I read several chapters from one book; tomorrow I read some from another, and so on until I got all three books finished. If I can watch like 20 different TV programs in a week and manage to remember the story, why can’t I read 2, 3 or even 10 different books?

12. I can’t understand what’s to like from local soap opera (or sinetron). Bad story, bad acting, bad directing, bad everything. But those series enable some people to enjoy celebrity status, even when the only thing they can do is pretending to act in front of a camera. Amazing what TV can do to a nation.

13. Mini version of hell on earth? Being stuck in a local hotel room with no cable and local channels only. I don’t mean to be a snob; it’s just local programming is really that bad.

14. I have difficulties to decide what I really want to do in life. Not that I don’t know what to do, but I have too many options. Hum, decision, decision, decision.

15. I’m a sucker for anything tidy, orderly, well designed and perfectly organized. That’s why my favorite places are Singapore, a Disney theme park, and an IKEA store.

16. If I had a million dollars, I would spend about half of it to build a perfect home for me and my family. One with a spacious backyard for the children to roam around and play to their hearts’ content. The other half I would spent to travel around the world. Three times.

17. Some people actually think I’m a very kind and nice person. Although it is flattering, it’s hard for me to believe. I must admit that I still function on self-serving mode at times.

18. The funny thing is, I once took a personality test, and the examiner said the result showed that I was a kind and nice person. I don’t know what part of the test result made the examiner thought so. He said that my wife was very lucky to have me as a husband. Thank God. I hoped she would agree.

19. I try to be polite and thoughtful to anyone, and I expect other people to do the same. Then I found that some people are just mannerly challenged. Nothing personal. It’s just the way they chose to be.

20. When I was younger, I wondered why I was born an Indonesian. Then I realized, otherwise I wouldn’t have had the friends that I had then. I liked them so much I would rather not be born anywhere else. And I still think so.

21. I was a math whiz in elementary and junior high school. Always in top of the class. Then I was downgraded to a class dunce in high school. It’s still a mystery to me, even now. But I suspect that calculus had something to do with that.

22. In college, I never got my balance sheet balanced. Yet I’m working in finance now. And I’m still waiting for the punch line.

23. I am so in love with my 1300 cc Toyota Avanza. Designed for Indonesian and ASEAN market, it is considered the best MPV in value and versatility. It handles so well in congested traffic, and it uses fuel as economically as a penny pinching Jew. When my wife suggested that we should get a better car, I said, “Yeah! Let’s get a 1500 cc Toyota Avanza!” She snorted and rolled her eyes at that.

24. I once lost 14 kgs, maintained the weight for about 3 years, and gained 35 kgs in the next 8 years. If there is one thing that I should be lazy about is this: keeping my weight.

25. I coaxed my friends into tagging me so I got to make this list of 25 random things, never mind whether they really want to know about me or not. But I was just dying to tell people about me. Go figure.

25 Random Things Most People Don’t Know About Me

February 18, 2009 by jottingpad

(Previously a Facebook Application Content)

1. My wife accuses me of being over-narcissistic at times. Usually when I spend too much time in front of the mirror. Too much time. Like, you know, 5 seconds.

2. At other times, I don’t like being the center of attention. You know, like when 800 something people had their eyes fixed at me. That’s why I’m not into performing arts, nor politics, nor reality shows.

3. I can be a true morning person. I like cramming as much things to do in a day from sunrise to sundown.

4. At other days, I like taking the time to wake up very slowly in the morning. I mean slowly. Really slow. Like one eyelid at a time.

5. As a Gemini who was born under the shadow of planet Mercury, I can be very fluent at talking my way out of sticky situation. My senior in college once called me ‘a pig’ to my face, when he became a victim to that ‘special’ ability. I wonder how he knew that pigs could talk like I did.

6. Yet there are many times when I would rather shut up and keep everything to myself.

7. In the morning, I hate to think of what to wear today. If possible, I would rather wear the same suit again and again until they’re all ragged from overuse.

8. But sometimes I love to dress up so meticulously that I end up depressing myself from thinking of all the things I must do (and shop for) to be perfectly groomed.

9. I’m born melancholy phlegmatic. One time my perfectionist side possessed me completely, I took about half an hour to rearrange the messy pile of discounted audio cassettes in a Carrefour store into neat rows, with all the spines uniformly facing up. If I had had another half hour, I would have arranged them alphabetically by artist’s name.

10. But when I was too lazy to bother, I used to let my books strewn all over the floor in my room for weeks on end. Well, now that I’m married, that doesn’t happen anymore. Or I will get an earful from my wife.

11. I sometimes read two or three books different books at the same time. Today I read several chapters from one book; tomorrow I read some from another, and so on until I got all three books finished. If I can watch like 20 different TV programs in a week and manage to remember the story, why can’t I read 2, 3 or even 10 different books?

12. I can’t understand what’s to like from local soap opera (or sinetron). Bad story, bad acting, bad directing, bad everything. But those series enable some people to enjoy celebrity status, even when the only thing they can do is pretending to act in front of a camera. Amazing what TV can do to a nation.

13. Mini version of hell on earth? Being stuck in a local hotel room with no cable and local channels only. I don’t mean to be a snob; it’s just local programming is really that bad.

14. I have difficulties to decide what I really want to do in life. Not that I don’t know what to do, but I have too many options. Hum, decision, decision, decision.

15. I’m a sucker for anything tidy, orderly, well designed and perfectly organized. That’s why my favorite places are Singapore, a Disney theme park, and an IKEA store.

16. If I had a million dollars, I would spend about half of it to build a perfect home for me and my family. One with a spacious backyard for the children to roam around and play to their hearts’ content. The other half I would spent to travel around the world. Three times.

17. Some people actually think I’m a very kind and nice person. Although it is flattering, it’s hard for me to believe. I must admit that I still function on self-serving mode at times.

18. The funny thing is, I once took a personality test, and the examiner said the result showed that I was a kind and nice person. I don’t know what part of the test result made the examiner thought so. He said that my wife was very lucky to have me as a husband. Thank God. I hoped she would agree.

19. I try to be polite and thoughtful to anyone, and I expect other people to do the same. Then I found that some people are just mannerly challenged. Nothing personal. It’s just the way they chose to be.

20. When I was younger, I wondered why I was born an Indonesian. Then I realized, otherwise I wouldn’t have had the friends that I had then. I liked them so much I would rather not be born anywhere else. And I still think so.

21. I was a math whiz in elementary and junior high school. Always in top of the class. Then I was downgraded to a class dunce in high school. It’s still a mystery to me, even now. But I suspect that calculus had something to do with that.

22. In college, I never got my balance sheet balanced. Yet I’m working in finance now. And I’m still waiting for the punch line.

23. I am so in love with my 1300 cc Toyota Avanza. Designed for Indonesian and ASEAN market, it is considered the best MPV in value and versatility. It handles so well in congested traffic, and it uses fuel as economically as a penny pinching Jew. When my wife suggested that we should get a better car, I said, “Yeah! Let’s get a 1500 cc Toyota Avanza!” She snorted and rolled her eyes at that.

24. I once lost 14 kgs, maintained the weight for about 3 years, and gained 35 kgs in the next 8 years. If there is one thing that I should be lazy about is this: keeping my weight.

25. I coaxed my friends into tagging me so I got to make this list of 25 random things, never mind whether they really want to know about me or not. But I was just dying to tell people about me. Go figure.

Exciting Changes

January 31, 2009 by jottingpad

My office building needs some serious repairs. In raining season like these days, water drips from leaks in various parts of the ceilings. There are leaks in the meeting room, leaks in the storage room, leaks in the reception area, and even in the office that I shared with 5 other people.

The worst leaks are ones in the meeting room wall. We’ve been trying to stop it for years with various remedies. We tried wall-papering, we tried re-plastering, all without success. Only a few days after repainting the wall, the leaks showed up again. First as small blots, then they got bigger and bigger.

I invited a building contractor, an acquaintace of mine, to have a look at the place. Accompanied by my GA, we took him on a tour of the place, just so he knew where to look for leaks. Later he came back with his technicians to do a full assessment.

Here’s what he came up with:
- The meeting room wall should be covered with ceramic tiles
- The archive room should get a new roofing
- The entire porch roof should be dismantled to replace the plywood underneath

And that’s just for starters.

Some people can see this as a disaster. But I try to look at the situation from a different point of view. I try to see it as an opportunity to create a new look for the office.

Apart from the repairs, several new recruits will be added to our already 40-strong team. This calls for additional desks and chairs, and for rearrangement of the office lay out.

These changes are really exciting for me. I have discussed with my friend for ideas, and we got some great ones.

The wait for the ideas to come into reality is almost unbearable.

Patience, my soul, patience.

Not So Unique A Name

January 9, 2009 by jottingpad

For many years, I thought I was the only one in the world with my name. I know many Stephens, and I know several Stevens, but no one with the same family name as mine. I tried to Google my name, and the only one that appear with the exact combination of first name and last name was, well, my name.

For many months I got many other things to mind, I stopped thinking about that. I had my blogs to tend, and my networks to maintain.

About two nights ago, after updating my online profile, my curiosity got the better of me. I typed my name into a search engine, and what a result it returned! The last time I tried to search my name, I got only a handful of hits. Now, I got a lot more! Thanks to my blogging and my networks, my name dots the net in more spaces than before.

As I scrolled down from one hit to another, I came across a quote from a news website. It was my name, but it belonged to another person.

And that person was a drug dealer of sort.

The news story talked about an excerpt from a trial of someone alleged of drug trafficking. And the defendant said that he got the stuff from another person who has the same first name and last name as me.

I didn’t believe my eyes the first time, so read the quote several times more. And there it was, in black and white!

Well, at last I know now that my name is not so unique, at all. But then, a terrible thought struck me. What if the police mistakenly suspect me as the drug dealer?

Good thing I have a middle name to differ me from that person. And that middle name is clearly printed on my ID card and driver’s license, and every other official documents that related to me.

Sigh.

Writer’s Block

September 15, 2008 by jottingpad

I once thought that faithfully keeping your blog daily is a cinch. “No problem,” I thought, “I just spare 15 minutes a day to keep my blog humming.” Yeah, right.

It’s not that I don’t like blogging. It’s just that sometimes it’s not that easy to find the thing to write about. Especially when your life goes just like that. Waking up in the morning, getting dressed, having breakfast, leaving for work, working, having lunch, working, going home, watching tv or browsing or reading, getting sleeepy, going to bed … and all the routines are repeated again the next day.

Not so much that anybody want to read. Isn’t it?

This post is a month apart from the last one.

So what am I to write today?

The 17-year-old Millionaire

August 15, 2008 by jottingpad

The following link contains an interesting story:

http://potw.news.yahoo.com/s/potw/52250/teen-millionaire

It’s about a teenage girl who is already a millionaire by the time she’s 17. This is another dot com success story. But the money doesn’t come from selling the shares of the company that owns the website she created. Instead, she gets income from honest hard work in developing the website. Nothing is new in what she is doing, because it is a basic internet business model. But she makes it work where many people fail.

Coming from a 17 -year old, the following business wisdom is fascinating:

1. Recognizing the needs in the market. She discovered that in her friends’ love to decorate their MySpace with graphic designs.

2. Knowing what one’s good at and works on it. She loves making designs herself, so she began to make several.

3. Marketing immediately. She borrowed $8 from her mom to set up her website, www.whateverlife.com, and used it to offer her designs for free.

4. Developing traffic to her website. After her friends began using her works in their MySpace sites, the rest worked out by words of mouth. To get more people visiting her website, she made a large enough collection of designs for people to choose from. This enticed visitors to come again and to refer the website to their friends.

5. With so much traffic, advertising offers are no surprise. She gets about 1 million visits a month. That’s where the money comes from. It’s basic internet business model, with the right market and the right content, and the right attitude.

6. Growing business by recruiting help. When things were starting to get hectic, she shrewdly hired people to help in three major parts:
a. Management of the business (Mom).
b. Content of the website (Friends who are on pay to create about 100 news designs a month so she can concentrate on more important things).
c. Business Consulting (a real internet consultant).

7. She made the tough choices that many other teenagers might not like.
a. Tough choice #1: She quit high school to concentrate on developing the business.
b. Tough choice #2: From all the money that the website makes, she wisely pay herself a reasonable $ 3,000 a month. But she bought her family a 4-bedroom home.
c. Tough choice #3: Privacy over fame and fortune. She turned down an offer from a TV station to make a reality show based on her life.
d. Tough choice #4: Postponing her driver’s license exam, until time permits.

The Quest for The Perfect Haircut

July 30, 2008 by jottingpad

For me, getting the right haircut had been somewhat equal to the quest for the Holy Grail. Ok, that was an overstatement. But the fact remains the same: it was SO difficult. Somehow my facial features are such that not any haircut will be complementary to them.

Case in point: I delayed getting my haircut until the day before my wedding day. That was to make sure that I look my best on that day. But things got very hectic. I had to get a lot of things done. Not to mention I had to undo errors that other people made. It was not until very late in the afternoon that I had the chance to mind my hair. Without much deliberation, I went to the closest barber that I knew. I ended up with a hair that looks like much like that of a Navy sailor’s. Add that to my all-white wedding suit, and a glance at my wedding photos might cause you to think I WAS in the Navy.

It’s not hard to find good barbers. It’s finding those who can understand what I want for my hair that’s very near to impossible. Barbers in the same barbershop can have different interpretations of how I should look like. Even one barber can give different cut on every visit. Let alone different barbershops.

I used to give the following order to my barber: “Crew cut, but with the hair on top a bit long in the fashion that I can still comb it.” And that can come across very differently from one barber to another. Some cut my hair too short at the top that I almost looked like a concentration camp victim. Some left too much hair on top that I looked like MC Hammer.

I got so frustrated about getting the right barber, that I finally stopped hoping of finding one. Whenever I visited a barber, I sat on the chair, gave my order, and left the rest to fate. When fate didn’t side with me, I just hoped that my hair would grow fast.

Then one day, a new barber shop opened in town. It’s called Kaizen. From the name, it’s probably a franchise from Japan. It promised a 10-minute cut, hygiene, and you could bring the comb used on you home, if you like. All for a mere Rp 20.000,- (or about US$ 2). The 10-minute cut sounded interesting. I decided to give it a try.

The first pleasant surprise was the barbers were all female. Some of my successful experiences were with female hairstylists. This was promising. But that didn’t prove anything until the actual hair trimming took place.

It was funny. The girl who cut my hair was rather short in stature. She had to lean on me to get to the top of my head, even with the barber chair lowered all the way. She leaned and put her breasts on my shoulder. I was a bit uncomfortable at first, but since she didn’t seem to be shy about it, why should I be bothered?

The cut went fine, and, to my standard, was a success. Yet, I was not a convert yet. It wasn’t until much later. I came to another Kaizen shop, sat down, and gave my usual order. My ears were all up when my hair stylist say, “Oh, you mean the ‘Spike’ cut?” Spike? What’s that? But I just nodded, and waited to see what she came up with.

And it turned out to be the cut that I had been looking for! EUREKA! Now I know the name of the perfect cut! But wait, I must be sure that this name will be understood uniformly with all the Kaizen barbers. After several more visits, my hope was fulfilled. It is the standard name for the cut. No matter who cut my hair at Kaizen, the same name produces the standard result! All I need to remember (thanks to my wife’s advice) is to ask for the top to be cut just a bit shorter. Not so much for the look, but for the cut to stay short longer.

Finally, after years of searching, I found my Holy Grail of hair cutting. Hopefully it will stay open as long as I live.

The Dark Knight: The Most Thrilling Batman Ever

July 18, 2008 by jottingpad

Caution: May contain spoilers. Those of you who plan to see this movie, please go away and come back again after you have seen it. You are warned.

I really didn’t expect much from this latest issue in Batman franchise. Especially that Batman Begins did not deviate so much from the formula of its predecessors. Only instead of setting Batman in a dark, morose and synthetic city like Tim Burton did, it put the Caped Crusader in a version of Gotham that is thickly New-York-ish, down to the uniform of the police.

But that’s the farthest my expectation was met. The rest of the way, it was mind-blowing. Let me give you 12 reasons:

1. The Joker. I don’t think there was ever an interpretation of The Joker character as outstanding as the one portrayed by Heath Ledger and as written by Christopher Nolan and his team. This one is REALLY scary and intimidating. By the way Ledger played him, you feel as if the bloody tears at the corners of The Joker’s mouth are not fully healed. Even when he is not on screen, the chaos and fear ensued from his threats reign supreme. You can really sense that Gotham is on the brink of disaster. Not only as a physical city, but also as a community of human beings. Now that’s what I call a strong character.

2. Batman. Yes, the Caped Crusader deserves a standing ovation for his decision to be a vigilante outside the law to keep Harvey Dent’s legacy alive. What’s the difference of Batman and a trained police canine if he’s only to appear at the bidding of a searchlight from a helpless police force? Way to go, Batman!

3. Bruce Wayne. This time Bruce Wayne decides not to help the damsel in distress, but the crime-fighting politician. That’s one tough call to make. Especially when the said politician turns bitter and bites the hands that save its life, and when the damsel is someone that has been his love interest for his whole life.

4. Harvey Dent. This is one human that can take it no longer, like many of people in real life. Nobody is super. So when a District Attorney gives up defending the law and turns into a villain when his girlfriend was blown to bits, who can blame him?

5. Alfred Pennyworth. If Harvey Dent had someone as wise as Alfred as his conscience, he woud have been able to take the death of Rachel Dawes more strongly. I think Alfred is the reason Batman can cope when Gotham – and his own life – doesn’t make sense anymore. And bravo to Alfred for burning the letter from Rachel Dawes to Bruce Wayne. It’s one move that saves Batman from further depression.

6. Lt. James Gordon. When a bespectacled, seemingly timid and quiet police officer suddenly fakes his own death that even his family cry their eyes out at the news, for the sake of capturing a villain, that’s another character worth mentioning about. That’s one little surprise among many in this sequel.

7. Lucius Fox. Morgan Freeman lends his commanding presence to this character, creating a persona of a man who knows how far is too far and quickly draw the line. He has no problem with his boss pursuing bad guys while clad in armor suits he invented to bring peace to Gotham, but he does have a problem with intrusion into the privacy of common citizens by tapping all cellphones in the city. When everything becomes so grey, it’s nice to know that there is still black and white.

8. Rachel Dawes. Here’s an idealistic woman, who, despite of being the love interest of a billionnaire-cum-villainbuster, chose to be with the ordinary man who fights for what he believes. Of course it won’t be easy to be the wife of someone who has multiple identities. But wouldn’t it be less of a problem if one of the identity entitles her to fame and fortune? Not to Rachel Dawes. She would rather marry a person who don’t wear a mask to do his job, doesn’t matter if he’s rich or poor. What a girl!

9. The Bat Pad. No, not the Batpod. I am referring to the downtown temporary headquarters, where Bruce Wayne keeps everything that makes him Batman, while his mansion is being rebuilt after being burned down by Ra’s al Ghul in Batman Begins. The 21st century version of a Batcave. Very spacious, clean looking, minimalistic, and surprisingly bright. Add a kitchen, a bathroom and a giant size plasma TV, it can well be your dream bachelor pad.

10. The Batpod. The motorcycle kind of vehicle that is the incarnation of the Batmobile when it has to be destructed due to catastrophic damages it sustains when protecting the police car that was transporting Harvey Dent, from being blown up by The Joker’s bazooka. No other two-wheeled vehicles can do a back-flip like this badboy does.

11. Bruce Wayne the extravagant (and dare-devil) man. Ever seen a billionnaire sacrificed his Lamborghini to save a life, with his own mortal self inside it, fully knowing that both his car and his life won’t be covered by his insurance?

12. Bruce Wayne the Magnanimous man. It is worth mentioning, though, that the life that he (and his Lamborghini) saves is that of Reese’s, the dissatisfied accountant who tried to blackmail Wayne by threatening to uncover the true identity of Batman, unless he was given 10 million dollars a month for life. Bruce Wayne keeps saying that he became Batman to inspire people for good. Ironically, he inspires people more as Bruce Wayne than as Batman.

All in all, it’s a movie well-written and well-produced. The storyline has depth, the characters are well-explored, the action scenes are superb, and the special effects are captivating.

There are some parts that may seem to be out of place, though. Like the reappearance of the Scarecrow in the opening scene, and as one of the shooters in the scene of the Mayor’s foiled assassination. And, quoting a review I read recently, there seems to be no real point in the introduction of the Reese character. The movie can do just fine without him.

But then, we can’t really tell just by what we see now. Who knows, those seemingly petty characters may have significant roles in the sequels. Yes, sequels. I’m sure there will be more sequels in this version of Batman, afther The Dark Knight broke box office record for sales on opening weekend previously held by Spiderman 3.